On the surface she was an attractive, refined, polished woman but Polly Bergen possessed eyes that twinkled as if to say she's also a lot of fun. The result was a career that has carried through five decades of music, mirth and drama and a reign as a symbol of beauty. Bergen is best recalled for her numerous books on how any woman can create style on a shoe-string, her numerous musical albums and her roles in film and TV, especially the 1983 miniseries "The Winds of War" and its 1988 sequel "War and Remembrance". In the latter two productions, she was the usually slightly tipsy Rhoda Henry, as